Vinny Provenzano

Hi, my name is Vinny Provenzano if you ask about me on an AI portal it says I am known for my role in ministry and community engagement. For the past 8 years I have been active in sharing my experiences and reflections, through writing and speaking about addiction and the power of love in chaotic circumstances. My story was featured on platforms like the “200churches” podcast, which highlighted my outreach and advocacy for those struggling with personal challenges.

My wife and I launched “We Chose Love” on the anniversary of our daughter “LaLa’s life” in 2018. It was the end of a long journey trying to help her overcome addiction and mental health issues. “We Chose Love” is a platform primarily focused on helping individuals navigate relationships impacted by addiction and mental health challenges. It emphasizes building emotional connections and fostering intentional relationships. While it initially centers on supporting family members and loved ones of those struggling with addiction, the principles shared can apply broadly to all types of relationships.

Various evidence-based methods, such as Community Reinforcement and Family Training (CRAFT), Motivational Interviewing (MI), and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) to create meaningful change by improving communication, understanding addiction as a complex biopsychosocial disorder, and encouraging healthier interactions with loved ones.

Key ideas include:

• Intentionality: Making deliberate efforts to show love, respect, and understanding, even in challenging situations.
• Connection: Strengthening emotional bonds can be a powerful tool in addressing addiction or relational issues.
• Perspective Shift: Understanding the underlying reasons for behaviors, such as addiction, to foster empathy and more constructive engagement.

Our approach is to share personal stories and tools to help individuals sustain relationships during difficult times, emphasizing hope and small daily efforts to improve dynamics.

How we work addressing addiction issues

I  have a long history of personal experience in the recovery process. In a few short months I will be drug free for forty years. I have navigated the process of loving someone with mental health and substance abuse issues through our experience with Lauren (“LaLa“). I have been involved in coaching and counseling for 38 years in the faith and secular communities. I am a Certified C.R.A.F.T Group Leader as well as a certified recovery coach through the Center for Progressive Recovery with Michael Pantalon, PhD Senior Research Scientist in Emergency Medicine, Yale University. In addition I have run programs for Progressive Recovery in Shelton, Ct.

My coaching process is very practical and event specific designed to address individual situations. Recovery is about relationship and relationships are complicated but extremely impactful.

Most of my clients work with me on an as needed basis. Receiving information and guidance as a specific situations arise. For a complimentary evaluation situation just email at vinny@wechoselove.com . These sessions are usually around 20 minutes to determine if I would be a good fit for you.

Sessions:

35 Minutes Coaching Session – $75.00

50 Minute Coaching Session – $125.00

4 – 50 Minute Coaching Sessions – $399.00

If you have questions please email me at vinny@wechoselove.com