Category: Our Story

  A SPECIAL INVITATION: Beginning May 1st 2026 each week for eight weeks will highlight the most meaningful “LaLa Notes” of the over 400 notes described in this post. This post was the most popular post of 2022.   These Read more…

it may seem like I don’t care or that I don’t appreciate all the sacrifices you and mom have made for me to have a better life and I wanted to thank you for that. and to know that I always appreciate what you do for me and Evan no matter how it may seem on the outside.”

Last week we started an 8 week series featuring the most popular post from each year since we beggan www.wechoselove.com . Todays post is from 2019. It describes the most heart wrenching experiences we had. It also reveals a natural Read more…

For the next 8 weeks we will be posting the most viewed post for each year since we started in 2018. Today is a very special day. We have posted our first video (5 mins).his past Tuesday I had the Read more…

Addiction effects everyone Many today may not remember the sad story of Terry McGovern who succumbed to her addiction and mental health in 1994. Her father was Senator George McGovern. He was deeply impacted by the loss of his daughter Read more…

I am posting this one day earlier than normal. It has been a long time since I made a post to the blog. Today marks the 6th year since our daughter “LaLa” passed away from a Carfentanil and Fentanyl laced Read more…

THE VERSE THAT REVEALS MY DAUGHTER This week I was reminded of something the tattoo that reminds me of my daughter on my arm says. She loved anchors pearls and dotting her “I’s” with meticulously drawn hearts. At the top Read more…

The other day I came across some journals. There were a few that I would use to write notes to Evan and Lauren with the hope that one day I would give them to them and they could read them. Read more…

I saw an interesting meme this week that got me thinking. “One of the hardest things you will ever do is grieve the loss of someone who is still alive.” Unknown I can agree with that, it is one of Read more…

I have been a little reluctant to write this post. I was hoping some other thoughts would come to mind but they haven’t. There are other reasons why I have been reluctant to post, but I think the biggest reason Read more…