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You Won’t Always Be Able to Do That

I saw an interesting meme this week that got me thinking. “One of the hardest things you will ever do is grieve the loss of someone who is still alive.” Unknown I can agree with that, it is one of Read more…


Hard Choices Are Really Hard

I have been a little reluctant to write this post. I was hoping some other thoughts would come to mind but they haven’t. There are other reasons why I have been reluctant to post, but I think the biggest reason Read more…


I’ve Looked at Life From Both Sides Now

Today’s title is a line from an old Jonie Mitchel song: “Both Sides now.” That is one of the things that frustrates me in life. Sometimes things happen, good or bad, that doesn’t make sense. Sometimes they seem to play Read more…


A Brief Primer on Recovery

Last week I wrapped up my anniversary post with this simple list of observations about addiction and mental health: It’s very complicated. Hopefully, we have moved past the simplistic idea that addiction is just a choice, it is, but it Read more…


The Last Words I Got to Say to LaLa

WE ARE FOUR Today marks the fourth anniversary since our family began the “We Chose Love” blog. The blog was started on the 1-year anniversary of Lauren, our daughter, passing away on July 6th 2017. This past Wednesday was the Read more…


Running Away From Hope

In loving someone in addiction or a mental health crisis brings many painful moments. For those of us that care so much about the affected person, and for that person who is in the throes of the battle over an Read more…


No One Reminds Me of You But Some Things Do

Not too long ago my wife and I finished a long-term marathon of the series “Blue Bloods”. We started at Season 1 Episode 1 and wrapped up with season 12 episode 20 “Silver Linings”. In the last few episodes of Read more…


Don’t Wait Til the Last Minute

WHY DID YOU DO THIS HONEY As we lay huddled together in our bedroom in the early morning the day after our daughter passed away from an overdose, we were stunned. Somehow, by Gods grace, I found the strength to Read more…


Isn’t Family Worth a Shot

The title of todays post, “Isn’t Family Worth a Shot?” is a line from the Blue Bloods show. It is from Episode 21 from Season 9 entitled “Identity” LIFE IMITATES ART Each episode like a lot of shows has two Read more…


Wise Words from A Young Man in Recovery

We are changing our page “Stories of Hope” into a new category. The purpose is to remind all of us that recovery is possible. The category will feature guest posts in peoples own words about how they are navigating their Read more…